Love to Night

The first thing you’re bound to ask yourself after a break up with your girlfriend is how can I win my woman back. Each and every man who has been in this situation knows that you are open to resorting to just about anything to get back with the woman you adore. Most men are not above calling their ex late at night while crying asking for another chance. You may also have asked mutual friends to plead your case for you. Actions like this are more likely to create even more distance between the two of you. If you truly want her back you’ve got to first and foremost learn how to control all those out of control emotions.

Like many men, after a break up with a girlfriend, I thought that to win my woman back I needed to share everything that I was feeling. My approach to achieve this was to write a very long and detailed email explaining my thoughts and what I believed had gone wrong in the relationship. I waited for a response that I believed would include her begging me to come back. All I got was a short email days later that essentially thanked me. That was it. If I had placed my emotions aside even for just a moment I would have realized that I’d get better results by not contacting her at all. She expected me to react the way I did. If I had instead made myself scarce for the first few weeks after the break up, it would have given her time to think. She needed this time to realize we were right for each other and part of that was missing me. If you want your ex back, don’t contact her right after the break up and more importantly don’t share what you are feeling with her.

Another thing I quickly realized when I was trying to win my woman back was that I had to take responsibility for what I did to contribute to the split. Even though she was the one who ultimately suggested we break up, I had done things that had resulted in her shifting her feelings for me. Working on improving those things was an essential part to getting her back. Unless I changed there was absolutely no reason for her to even consider getting back together with me. Obviously if things are the same, the result will be the same and another break up will occur. I set my mind to working on making myself a better person. It impressed her and showed her that I was mature and that a future with me would be different. This is what you want your girlfriend to feel as well, so make a list of things about yourself that you’d like changed and then get to work changing them.

The help you need is the “Magic of Making Up”, an excellent e-book by T. Dub Jackson. In the in The magic of making you will find some very simple ways and methods that will show you how to get your ex girlfriend back. They are plain suggestions and real down to earth methods although some what unconventional to help you to get your ex girlfriend back in days - not months or years. The get ex girlfriend back formula is for people having an intense urge to find out ways and means to make up for their loss. They are no way black magic but works like magic to get your ex girlfriend back.

That’s why it is called The magic of making up, an e-book that can make you relish the true sense of love fully renewed and rejuvenated. This magic of making up lays down all the necessary ingredients and simple yet unconventional procedures needed to get your ex girlfriend back.

Before we go any further, I need to talk to you about your penis. Traditionally, men are intensely preoccupied with trying to learn the secret of mastering women’s bodies, yet they spend so little time trying to understand their own. The typical man is prepared to burn the midnight oil studying the intricacies of the female anatomy. He will happily pick up a flashlight and search endlessly for G spots, sun spots, or any other spots that will help him be a better lover, yet he barely knows his own equipment.
There’s only one thing wrong with that: you can’t become multiorgasmic if you don’t know your own penis.

Do you like your penis?

Do you like your penis? Are you proud of it? Or are your positive feelings mixed with feelings of embarrassment, shame, and doubt? Don’t feel bad if they are. The truth is, it’s a rare man who is truly comfortable with his own penis. When it comes to their most private parts, most men feel extremely self-conscious and extremely vulnerable.
We need to change that. Why? Because a positive attitude about your own body is going to set the stage for a radical change in your sexual power. Every man needs to understand the following fact: the secret to being a good lover lies not within a woman’s body, but within his own. Any man can become a phenomenal lover if he understands that his greatest sexual power lies in his ability to understand and control his own penis.
If you want to become a sexual virtuoso, the first thing you need to do is master your own penis. Everything else will follow very quickly from there. To ignore the power of your own penis is to waste your greatest asset, and that’s a shame.

Mark has yet another set of reasons for wanting to learn about male orgasm. Still a young man, Mark has yet to find a steady partner, and he has anxiety about his ability to perform well when he does. He wants to learn as much about sex as he can so that he will feel more secure and knowledgeable when he is with women.
Josh is only a few years older than Mark, but he considers himself very experienced sexually. He thinks of himself as a good lover and believes that he is able to maintain an erection long enough to satisfy any partner. But Josh has another concern: he is so mentally aware of “holding back” his orgasms in order to please the woman he’s with that it keeps him from fully enjoying the experience.
Until very recently, all of these men believed there was only one secret involved in being a good lover: “learning to play a woman’s body like a violin.” But that has all changed now. Today, these four men are enthusiastic and excited, having discovered that there is yet another secret that will allow them to bring pleasure to their partners while increasing their own pleasure.
What about you? Aren’t you tired of those violin lessons too?
And if you’re a woman, aren’t you tired of being treated like a string instrument? Are you ready to finally learn something that can really make a difference in your sex life? I think you are. I think you’ve been ready for a long, long time.
So where do we begin? It is my experience that before a man can learn to have his first multiple orgasm he needs to learn a little bit more about himself. More specifically, he needs to develop a new, more sophisticated understanding of the main character in this book: his penis. With that in mind, it’s time to turn the page and take a new look at a very old friend …

You’ve already met Daniel. Right now, I’d like to introduce you to four other men: Fred, David, Josh, and Mark. As you will see, each of these men has a different reason for wanting to learn about male multiple orgasm, and every reason is valid. Maybe you will recognize some of your own needs and concerns in one of their stories. I think most men have something in common with at least one of these four men.

1-th sexual story

Fred has always found it very easy to express his sexuality. He is currently married for the second time and he and his wife Janice have a very active sex life. Because sex is important to Fred, he wants to make sure it stays that way.
Right now, he and Janice make love almost every night and many mornings as well. Fred says that to him it’s sort of like brushing his teeth-something you do routinely at regular intervals of the day. But Fred is becoming worried that his “refractory period” - the length of time between erections - is getting longer. Or, as Fred puts it, “Lately, I can’t always get it up twice a day.” Fred is interested in finding new techniques that will allow him to continue to spend large amounts of time having sex with his wife. Janice thinks that’s a pretty good idea.

2-th sexual story
David has a completely different reason for being interested in learning about male orgasm. He worries that he can’t keep an erection long enough to satisfy his wife, Debbie, and he’s concerned that she is not as happy in bed as she would like to be.
It seems that no matter how hard David tries, he can’t sustain an erection for much longer than five minutes. He laughs when he refers to himself as “a quickie,” but he doesn’t really think it’s funny.
He’s willing to try anything that will bring Debbie to orgasm, but he knows what his wife really needs is prolonged intercourse.
In truth, David never had much control over his erection, but when he and Debbie first started sleeping together he felt so much desire that after he reached orgasm he was able to have a second erection within ten or fifteen minutes. The second time, it was easier for him to hold back his own orgasm and ejaculation, allowing him to prolong intercourse long enough for Debbie to reach orgasm.
Over time, however, David lost this ability, and that’s been a problem for Debbie.
Debbie agrees. David has read several books that promise he can become a great lover by learning to press the right spots on a woman’s body. But when he tries these techniques on Debbie, they don’t really seem to be working. They don’t work because other books don’t explain the philosophy behind the techniques, and David ends up “working on” Debbie instead of enjoying himself.
Touching is nice, and oral sex is great, but Debbie needs more intercourse to feel satisfied. She misses the long sessions of lovemaking. Sometimes she feels that she is just beginning to get excited as David is already ejaculating. Knowing that this is going to happen makes her nervous and uncomfortable when they’re having intercourse. She feels as though she is spending more time thinking about David’s erection than she is about her own pleasure. She loves David and she doesn’t want to hurt his feelings, so she gasps and moans and pretends to have an orgasm. But it’s not the same, and she knows it. Worse still, he knows it.
Both Debbie and David want the same thing: sex that is passionate and prolonged. They want to feel comfortable with themselves and with each other. David wants desperately to last long enough to bring his wife to orgasm through intercourse. When he thinks of making love to her, in his head he can continue for hours.
Why doesn’t that happen in real life? By using the technique of male orgasm, it can.

If you are a woman reading this site, you probably have several reasons for doing so. Because you love your partner a lot, you care about giving him as much pleasure as possible in bed. You want him to be the best lover he can be, but not just so he can fulfill your physical needs. You want him to feel good about himself in all ways; you want to be able to tell him that he’s a fabulous lover, and have him know for himself that it’s true.
But you also probably have some selfish reasons for being interested in male orgasm. Perhaps you’re feeling frustrated because most, if not all, of your orgasms are reached through oral sex or clitoral stimulation without penetration.
Perhaps you want to be able to know that your partner can sustain an erection long enough to give you the stimulation you need to achieve orgasm through intercourse. Or perhaps, even if you’re satisfied with the quality of your orgasms, you want to be able to spend more time making love. Maybe you simply find so much joy in having sex with your partner that you want to be able to do it longer. There is nothing wrong with wanting to make your sex life more and more wonderful. Too many women settle for less than what they really want, and I’m glad you’re not one of them.
If you are a man reading this article, I know that you care about making your partner happy in bed and are sensitive to a woman’s sexual needs. You want her to feel fulfilled and satisfied, and that’s terrific. If you didn’t, you wouldn’t be interested in what I have to say. Perhaps you are already able to make love for an extended period of time, and you’re reading this because you want to intensify your pleasure or want to find other ways of expressing your sexuality. Perhaps you are anxious about your ability to maintain an erection, or you would like to experience a greater intensity in your own sexual response. Perhaps you are trying to rediscover the multiorgasmic ability that you had as a younger man, or re-create an isolated multiorgasmic experience in your past that left you wanting more. Perhaps you are just curious.
Whatever your reasons, you are about to discover the wonderful things that becoming multiorgasmic does for a man. It’s not just your body that will be changing. Your sense of who you are is going to change, and so is your sense of what you have to offer a woman.
When a man feels good about his sexuality, he feels good about himself. Sexual confidence creates greater confidence in many other areas of a man’s life. It strengthens self-image and it strengthens self-esteem. This is powerful stuff.

I hope that by now I’ve already made you smile, or even laugh.
We all need to laugh a little bit more about sex, and I believe in using humor to help people learn about sex. Don’t get me wrong - I’m not a comedienne. I have a Ph.D. in psychology and I take sex very seriously - so you don’t have to.
I like sex and I believe in sex. I think it’s one of the most wonderful things that can happen between a man and a woman. I think its value to a relationship is immeasurable. But I also think we need to be able to laugh about sex and during sex. Here’s my bottom line: I believe that sex should be easy and wonderful and fun for everyone. Having sex should be like going to Disneyland-tons of different rides, plenty to eat, and fireworks at midnight-only better because you don’t have to wait on line. Does that sound good to you?

Is the possibility of a truly exciting sex life the kind of news you’ve been waiting for, or does it all sound too good to be true? For some people, the concept of male orgasm seems perfectly logical, but to others, it may seem somewhat unnatural, or even downright impossible.
If you’re feeling a bit skeptical or uneasy right now, that’s normal. It has to be somewhat disconcerting to think we don’t know such a vital piece of sexual information. But as any good sex therapist will confirm for you, new sexual techniques are being developed all the time as we discover more about our bodies and our sexual capabilities. These new discoveries can be intimidating at first, but ultimately they’re very good news for all of us.
So relax if you can and try to be as open as possible. Believe me, even if you have your doubts right now, they won’t last. I’m not here to teach you theory, but to deliver the goods. By the time you have finished the exercises in this article, I know you will be a believer, with all the proof you ever need right in your own hands. Literally.

Male orgasm. Wow! What a concept. I’ll never forget how skeptical I felt when I first heard about it back in 1980. It was my second week of “basic training” for sexual surrogates at the Riskin-Banker Psychotherapy Center in Tustin, California.
Sex therapy is an important area of specialization at Riskin-Banker, and part of their therapeutic work involves the use of surrogates, both male and female. As it turns out, two of the male surrogates who worked there at the time were both capable of achieving multiple orgasm. On certain occasions, they actually used these techniques during work with their female clients.
If I hadn’t actually known these two men personally, I might have never believed such a thing was possible. Sure, I knew all about multiple orgasm in women. But men? How could men have multiple orgasms? I had a million questions that needed answering. As I listened to each of these men talk in detail about their unusual abilities, I knew that my understanding of male sexuality was about to change radically and permanently.
By the time my training was complete, I had all the proof of male multiple orgasm I ever needed. Since then I have spent most of my time working hard with other clinicians and clients to develop and perfect a variety of techniques that any man or couple could practice in the comfort of their own home. Today, I want to share those techniques with you. Why? Because I care about relationships and I care about sex. We need to have good sex in our relationships.
Good sex brings us closer together. It strengthens intimacy and cements the bond. It can even save a marriage. We can’t try to hide from this. Quite the contrary-we need to do everything we can to celebrate the importance of a rich sexual connection.

Remember that big “talk” you had about sex with your dad when you were just a kid? Who could forget it? It was probably one of the most awkward moments of your childhood, right? Sure he did the best he could, but you probably were left to fill in a whole lot of gaps by yourself. Well, it’s time for another talk. This time, you and need to talk about sex . . . really talk. If you have a partner, she should listen too. I’m not going to pull any punches here. When it comes to sex, there are a lot of things most people just don’t know.
I’m not talking about sexual trivia - I’m talking about the critical things that stop most people from ever having a truly fulfilling sex life.
Please don’t get insulted. I know that you know a lot about sex. Everyone does, whether they want to or not. After all, it’s a subject that’s hard to avoid in the nineties. Turn on the TV, plug in the radio, open a book, go to the movies, flip through a magazine . . . what do you see? Sex, sex, sex. From Howard Stern to Melrose Place, from Donahue to pay-per-view, we’re getting educated by osmosis. But that doesn’t mean it’s a very good education. Knowing a lot about sex is not the same as being sexually fulfilled. Knowing a lot about sex doesn’t always change what happens in the bedroom. No matter how much you’ve heard, read, and seen, sex can still feel like the greatest mystery in the world. No one likes to feel, insecure about something as important as sex, but the truth is, at some point everyone feels as though everyone else on the planet is making love more often and more exquisitely than they are. Sometimes it feels as though all of this sexual education has only made us more unsure.
It’s time to change all that and start filling in all of those gaps once and for all. I couldn’t think of a better place to start than learning about male orgasm, which will change everything you ever thought you knew about sex. In fact, it will change everything. Period. It certainly did for me and for the many men and women with whom I’ve worked. I’m sure it will for you too.